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Originally Posted by bhangra12345
Jana, You are a woman right.
So without thinking that the prophet was involved in this case, the present legal marriageable age of 18(in India) is just an arbitrary number, I agree with that, but at the same time,
do you believe that a girl of 10-15 years is ready for marriage? What will the psycological pressures and long term effects on a girl at such age?
Think about an younger sister/daughter/neighbor around you of that age and answer the question.
Does only puberty decide the marriageability of a child? A male might be able to start at around the same age too, but is he ready?
Is just reproducing the singular aim of marriage?
My answer for all the questions is no and I am not talking about any moral values and such things over here.
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i was just answering the question of marrying a gal at that age and not the other aspects.
Now coming to your point in almost all the Islamic countries that age is same 18 years.
secondly i had seen gals being married and well off with regards to all other aspects so indeed they can do it.
But now coming to the aim of marriage well idont say that is the only aim and i am also not talking about morality here so lets take the example of such relations between boys and girls in the West ( I am not talking about morality here but just pure medical point of view).
NOw see there we can see young gals as young as age of 12 or 13 having sexual relations with boys now no matter they are not married legally but the actions are the same which married people perfrom so here in this case though they dont produce kids but are going through all such process of married life so what you say about this ???
Does this not affect them psychologically ???
If than why dont anyone question this practice